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Cinderella Doesn't Poop!

Dreams are weird.

This one was no exception.

There's this perception that therapists are supposed to be able to analyze dreams, but um....that's not me.  I once dreamt of losing all of my teeth and wanted to high tail it to the dentist.  But, apparently those dreams are about loss in general?  Or fear of growing old?  (courtesy Dr. Google)

Anyway, a dream has to be super clear for me to get the message.  And this one was.  It was so clear that the "Ah-HA" followed within a minute of the initial "WTF?"

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A little gem on how to deal with infertility

One of the biggest struggles when dealing with infertility is the fact that it seemingly becomes a full-time job.  There is so much planning to do on top of the regular doctor visits, tests, monitoring, etc.  When you throw the emotional setbacks on top of that, infertility can take over one's whole life.

Eventually it looks like this:

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Sometimes you just have to #startasking


If you've read my uber popular Choosing Adoption series, you know that I'm into signs.  Not like road signs and billboards (though I do have a healthy collection of old Elvis movie poster tins...hee hee).

I mean signs from the Universe.  

(P.S. If you haven't read the Choosing Adoption series, go to it!  Seriously....over 17,000 hits and keeps going.  Peeps are lovin' it.  Start with Part One here or jump to Part Two where I start talking about Universal Signs. :) )

So, yes...signs from the Universe.  When I was going through my whole transformation from beat down infertility girl to Zen Mama-to-Be, I was absolutely convinced that the Universe, God, Source, Yahweh, the Collective Unconscious - whatever you want to call that divine evergy - was sending me signs that things were going to be okay.  I would literally be feeling a crash and burn coming, and POP....there would be another sign.  

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